Understanding Your Cancer Man (Zhuantie)

 Cancer 
he was twelve constellations of the most sensitive and most know how to care about people, the richest man feeling like a woman.
He is a man full of emotion, although the shell hard, but the heart is highly sensitive and gentle. He emotionally delicate, with female-like care, caring virtues, and agreeable, well versed in doing live by. He was good as with the tide, as tender care, a means of interpersonal communication, can use personal emotional move, united around him. He was good on others to carry out meticulous observation and experience, able to grasp the mentality and emotional needs of others. He is full of care and concern, so that he can in order to suffocate you, hold you, manipulate you.
he's too sensitive for the reaction of the outside of his inner world so turbulent, difficult to calm. He is too value their feelings, so often made him sensitive to bear the torment of self-skepticism, and often see the little things heavy, which makes his self-esteem is extremely vulnerable to injuries, in a gloomy state. his most eager to be able to understand his emotional world, but he was not directly open their heart, his emotions, his temper volatile moment, a moment cool, indifferent, while they are sentimental, while he's angry that as the eight winds, an instant he was cold as ice is likely to become, so you feel guilty and uncomfortable. you can not really understand him, understand him better not even think about This is because his heart is full of emotional turmoil.
He has the survival instincts and the ability to protect themselves, but he does not like direct confrontation and conflict, contradictions encountered, and he used to take subtle and indirect ways to avoid. He usually due to the sensitive response to the outside world closed hard shell, through the back like a crab to escape the difficult outlet to express his anger. he will use complex riddles like way to talk to you, if you do not know how to guess, devious strategies, do not know his secret.
Despite his very strong performance, at no time showed his vulnerable side, but only he knew his how fragile the world within, the lack of security. security is an important point that he only did the money behind a strong support, he would feel safe. He knows better than anyone the value of money, he can do without power, but he enough power to create wealth. emotionally, he needed a safe haven, which makes his desire to start a family, and have the ability to create genius lair of life, and he knows how to live comfortably on the earth. He is a firm man, he is slow, long lasting and satisfy their needs, as long as his crab claw, he can never give up easily. whether it is wealth, or do you, as long as his goal to become, almost nothing can make him stop step.
his act driven by emotion, he has a keen sense and brilliant insight into the ability to grasp the pulse of your mind, do not need to rely on rational analysis and reflection. He has a great, rich fantasy and imagination, infinite romantic and warm atmosphere. He knows how to get along with women's secret, subtle and humorous, intimate and thoughtful, you can easily went into the world. but his volatile emotions, sensitive character of the complicated and confusing, so you almost impossible to predict when it can really have him.
rich and willing to help his feelings of people in need, and need to be protected like to be feeling. wherever he can form a small group. He has a father like the ability to raise people caring for people, when the person he really care about (only he really trust you), he treated his family like the same. kind caring, sincere love and tender care of all his born with the qualities to win over hearts and minds.
He is remembered history of man, the memory of the past, sensitive and excessive self-protection so that he sometimes can not move forward in action, he often unconsciously hide. He is a loving family and family man, his most with the quality of a family's stability.
his obsessive attention to you, his faithful so that you can rely on, his humane sense of humor as well, there was an unspeakable mystery charm. He varied emotions you wondering, like the enigmatic variable, you often feel the face is not a man, but several men's faces.

Cancer man fall in love so in love, comes, fear of being rejected, and he is generally not very aggressive attack. He would quietly watching, passively waiting. When the decision to attack, he does not lack the ability to take the initiative to attack. he needed another kind of intimate relationship and interdependence However, as shy, timid, indirect personality and to self-protection, he will not have too intimate performance, in the beginning, he was not bold, straightforward way to show their feelings. But once a decision, he would desperately seeking you'll cross a lot of romance, the test procedure proposed to you directly, as if he and the others as competition until the final victory. However, if the first attack he suffered a setback, he will immediately retreat, Aries Do not expect him to like you, as ferocious in pursuit.
his true feelings for you is very sensitive, and once you fall in love, he will go all out. seize the love, he will hanging on. He is a man who know how to romance, romance for him, is more important than sex. However, his romantic Aries and Leo is different from the kind of warm burning passion, but also different from the baptism of blood and fire of Scorpio. He has a large some women have been longing for warmth, he has a wonderful ambience to create two talented people, such as drawing near for you Wing, candlelight and you lovingly handle. facing flowers, Sheng meals, gifts, you will feel you have been overwhelmed by his emotions. He has a special ability to let you know, treated like a goddess he did to you, but you need to know that you are part of the property belongs to him.
his sense of security for require extremely high, he is extremely sensitive and jealous. If you do not keep the Women and angered him, you will see his side of the cold, unless you have absolute economic advantage to let him be your sub. He needs to know your every day rule, you'd better go home on time, if you go out alone, happy, home, goes through a tragedy, he was not sick there is something worse, you will feel a strong taste of guilt. You have to understand He can not have any competitors, he would not emotionally in a second.
He is not only romantic, but also a very strong sense of responsibility, he knows how to take care of you, care for you, your thoughtfulness, Wenhanwennuan, some tea meal delivery. he looked forward to love is permanent, but a family is the real purpose of his love. As security for families, and contain emotion and money, he would purposefully into the marriage, bear fruit as soon as possible. He expect you to work with him to provide protection for the future of families, I hope you feel that he is indispensable, he has a family unshakable loyalty and dedication. He is the ideal marriage partner, he has a strong sense of responsibility to protection, raising the next human generation. He not only want to marry you, and he hopes to become a father as soon as possible, and then the formation of a family, and his feelings for the natural requirements have been met. He will play the role of good husband and father to protect his family. If you do not have family responsibilities, do not go in depth with him, a wounded Cancer is not easy to heal.
how to lure men
Cancer
you love him so he has few men gentle, kind, sensitive and compassionate, have a strong intuition and insight to understand your mood changes, to give you the truth of the care taken care of. He has a sense of responsibility, able to offer you, desperate to protect you. he lovely, warm, and his feelings are like the endless ocean, and deep, and sincere, and romantic. He is a loving family life, a good man, not only know how to send you flowers, you are better at cooking, he can give you a stable, comfortable, warm home, he will take care of you than the nanny than your mother will love you, since you have to take care of his close friends. He is a household to live a good man, he knows better than you the value of money, know how to use the money wisely, he can be generous to you. and living with him, you never anxious for tomorrow's livelihood, you do not bankrupt, life will only growing more and more brilliant. He makes you hate

endless variations of his emotions, when the sadness, pessimism occupied the upper hand, he is like a sentimental woman. his emotional needs like a black hole filled up, he share your desire for a strong, easy to produce jealousy, as if you were his private property, you lose the freedom to own activities.
he used to manipulate your feelings with care to make you feel guilty, with the excessive protection to deprive you of freedom, obviously he did not gas, lack of security, he said everything for you, if you cause any contradictions are due, he is an innocent victim. He often emotional, not to deal with conflict calmly is a child with no sense.
over his sensitive and timid, and always suspicious to guess you. He does not directly conflict with you, he let you figure this out and curved around the emotional language mapping, stimulation, torture you. He is a timid protectionists, he go out, travel, activities with friends without much enthusiasm. his love home, remember the past, do not like you free in their movements, he provide you with a secure cage.
his security, money, too seriously, that was too preoccupied with. he narrow-minded, will remember him for everything you do.
If you want to lure He
his shy, passive, and highly sensitive, in order to cover up their inner weakness and feelings, he usually acted cool, indifferent. close to his first step is to get his trust, you need to lift his sharp crab claws. you sunny, calm and generous character, will cause his envy and admiration. give him laughter, showing his intense desire in your life, you just, frankly, for the future with optimism. you are full of vigor and without fear. you are not afraid of exposing themselves to tell him a little bit of your little secret. you have to behave understanding, do not forget he is a sensitive crab, he is extremely able to understand human body language, he can understand the care and touched included, unconsciously touching his hard shell, generous parting hug, can cause his inner longing for love.
What do you wear?
if you're dressed too sexy , wild, it will make him feel insecure. he was very much artistic taste, not like a woman does not dress up. you have to show him a good jasper image, so he was, you are a suitable mother of his children people.
where dating?
First of all, he likes the warmth of family, home luxury hotels makes him more than comfort and safety. you better go home to prepare dinner, lit candles, along with gentle beautiful music, you can let him forget his worries, fears and habits of self-protection.
and his talk about?
any topic related to family, from cooking, decoration, buy a house, kids, shopping , pets, etc., do not forget to tell him you love his mother, who likes children.
Cancer preferences and needs of men's preferences

he likes his memories of the past, while behind him all the more concerned and think about how long it can continue. He likes history and the family's past and all things related, such as family tree, the well-known thing, but also like to collect valuable antiques and old things. He likes shopping tips, like physical intimacy contact, like any mother who loves him. He likes quiet, comfortable, water environment, like to show emotion of any items (such as flowers, birthday cards), like to manage the family, like food and cooking.
he do not like any criticism from his family, do not like to talk under the pressure of other people do not like to deal with urgent matters, do not like any criticism of the level of the people of his cooking.
his basic needs
Although he belongs to the water ELEMENTS seat, but his heart most in need of safety and security. money can improve the security of his life, was his feeling, first of all feel safe and secure base, which is the anchor of his life. his work the objective is clear, not For fun and interest, but for the money.
he needs to build a secure, comfortable, complete family, with a romantic, competent wife and enough money to make his deal with sudden disaster. He needs to keep the family close contact, you need to future generations, because he has a strong sense of family continuity, you need to pass following the descendants of the family business.

his fear that he feared most do not have a secure, stable, able to hide from the storm in the harbor, He will do anything to protect their homes. After he has, but also afraid of losing him. He feared no descendants, his care for the offspring than their own lives.
he wanted a woman he was a romantic
mood of the men, a powerful illusion of ability, his attitude toward women that is realistic and romantic. He longed for the kind of strong, calm, emotionally stable woman, this woman dynamic, proactive, self-protection with a sense of security, knowing What they need, and have the ability to get, but these are precisely the lack of his desire.
he needed a woman to let him feel safe, this woman not only allows self-security, but also to give him a positive force. He does not like a Gemini, Aquarius, as the need to stimulate thought, and his attitude to life could not escape the impact of orthodox family line, he needs to get married, marriage and raising children. He is now considered more of the lover, not the future would be a good mother of his children.
the inner feeling of insecurity, he is very sensitive, self-protection, strong, independent woman and have too many social activities so that he skeptical. Therefore, he often eager to challenges and reality of his choice, he usually does not easily fall into the woman he desires love.
Cancer man's sexual desire
his shy, cautious, tender and full of care, is a sensitive, fine man. Usually, he does not need too complex and varied sex life, his love and sexual co-exist, simultaneously. He has a sense of accurate and intuitive, in terms of sex, he is good at understanding the emotional needs of women and give a woman needs emotional and gentle. differ from male wild Aries and Leo, he is not the kind of likes to use force to subdue the man attacking a woman.
he is not on the sex differences to men like innovation . His inner and outer should feel safe, comfortable and be able to relax. He need a woman for his gentle touch to feel the love. romantic scene ignited his passion is an important factor, he likes soft as moonlight as romance. His complicated by the fact that he likes occupied a dominant position, but he is also a sensitive, afraid of being rejected, you have to consider his subtle and tactful, not straight character, so that his mysterious aspirations are met.
He likes full of romance and fantasy with great ability. He likes gentle, beautiful and romantic classical myth, like myth and history of playing the role of celebrity, you are Chang, Yi after he is your secret of his desire.
Cancer man who is best suited to
Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces woman:
you can easily communicate, no need for words to understand each other's feelings. feelings, feeling is the foundation of your relationship, even contradictory, and you know how to resolve emotional reasons, you are a good lover and companion. Scorpio needs to understand his vulnerability, Pisces needs to understand his need for security.
Taurus woman:
you have similar romantic, you can also eat together, he not only can meet the protection of your real life, was a culinary master, you are the most reliable and stable marital relationship.
Virgo woman :
unstable as long as you do not care about his feelings, he will be your best partner. you are a thrifty couple, will be hard for the future generations.
Libra woman:
you come from different The planet, however, look back Thinking back, admired each other, he likes you indifferent and reason, though need each other to really come together. But you still be able to life partner.
Leo woman:
him from the heart in worship you, he will implicitly give you all the attention, your marriage will be full of love and romance and conflict, but endless fun. He is a good father your children.
Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius Block, Aquarius woman:
you are completely different creatures, but no one can stop you to get together, you help him broaden their horizons, and he will teach you to understand the emotions, he was able to hold a home for you. and his live together, you need to learn sensitivity.
Capricorn woman:
you have a common need for security, soon be able to blend together. you have to overcome your desire for calm and control, you will from his body learn to love, caring, you are a combination of stability, is the complementary partner.
how to stay together with the Cancer man
If you want to do with him Zhang Xiangshou
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let him feel safe, reliable, on time to go home, and participate in social activities with him.
in his emotions of sadness, to give him a warm hug and touch.
to take seriously his cooking skills, to appreciate, praise, to enjoy his cooking.
to his house as your home.
accept his maternal-like care, return to him the same care.
do not do:
not criticize his family, especially his mother not to have any adverse views.
do not like the small animals, pet.
Do not say you do not want children or you do not like kids.
Do not mess up the kitchen.
Do not let him have abandoned suspicious, do not go out alone.

if you broke up he wanted to break up with you generally will not easily abandon his
you, if you can not love him enough moisture , will result in over his emotional hunger, which he may leave you the key. If you do not have children, without filial piety, not love his mother, he will not choose you. in marriage If he felt loved enough, his hunger for love, let him find a balance somewhere else. But he will not easily leave you, because he and the love of family responsibilities, particularly with children, he will not to leave his warm nest of small crabs.

you want to break up with him the feelings you want to be prepared to accept a storm disaster, you have to be careful of the crab claw his sharp, he or hold you, or use it a powerful weapon in fight back as your injury. normally, he would use to make you feel strong emotions of crime, guilt, this relationship can not be completely broken. If you're determined not to compromise, do not want him to rationally accept the reality, your let him go just as lost property and shelter, he will be angry roar, there's something you throw away.
you'd better not talk to him directly, but slowly let chilly relations. when he can not feel Your warmth and love, his emotional drought occurred in the fields, he can not feel you need to exist. or you can indirectly let him know that your ancestors have a genetic disease, or you can not afford to have children, you is not would see his family, but do not want to advice his mother. In this way, you slowly slip away waiting for him.

adjust your expectations to let you know he is a warm family man, he not only can give you a romantic, understanding, back to your mother-like care. If your self-confidence and self-esteem so that Scorpio man raw grinding, your romance is Capricorn frozen into ice, changing the Gemini man you lose trust, and found him, you found the spiritual from physical therapists. whether it is emotion, love, compassion, responsibility, romance, loyalty, survival skills, he has, you find your child from a good father, and found you living the best life partner.
However, to get these, you must be able to give him emotional support of a strong woman. If you can not get his respect, he was able to cold than anyone else. and his live together, you need to understand more than you need his emotions and love, he is more sensitive than you. Otherwise, the emotional ups and instability, to torture off your nerves, make you feel the face is not a man, is the number of faces. Many of his happiness is based on you and his home, you must learn the entire body and mind are placed in the home, to reduce your freedom of movement. you have to know and accept that he will accept his home